just wanted to share a few notes i took at the women of faith
conference in anaheim sept 8th.....there was music, various speakers, comedian anita renfroe, and sandi patty performed--what an amazing voice!!
...the conference came at a good time for me--i've been a bit stressed and emotional lately with stuff in life and it was nice to get out and meet some women from church for a day of fellowship....i took notes on some things....my notes are a bit random---and some of the little sayings of the speakers are cheesy, but i think true : )
*stop comparing/stop controlling
- we tend to compare ourselves and our lives to others -- this is not good
- we try to be in control of everything and in the end, we are not
the one in control--God is and we need to put our faith in Him
"if you work all the time and focus on having the best of the best of
everything, you may not realize the best is sitting right in front of
you"
--sometimes it is best to sit, be still and quiet, and listen/hear
God---we tend to be so 'busy' in our lives that we don't take time to
just be still.
* if God has a dream for each of us, what happens when it is snatched
from us or if it never shows itself to us?
- there is a HUGE difference between God's dream and the american
dream.....the american dream is critically flawed.....so, what is
God's dream for us?
---God's dream is us being set free to live, love, fall down, and get
back up again. God loves us for who we are (with all our flaws and
short-comings)....he loves us just as we are---broken....his love is
not based on our actions, but on who we are...
it's ok to be broken.....if you tell someone the truth about you and
what you are experiencing and that person chooses to walk away from
you--let them go....we should surround ourselves with people who
accept us as we are...
we have to start by being vulnerable and telling the truth about who we are....
Amazing Freedom: Jesus paid our bill...we don't have to keep paying ---we can let go of
all the past emotional/mental/physical abuse-----we don't have to keep paying for it for the rest of our lives---Christ has paid for it so we can let it go and be freed through Christ's love for us.
---we should pray for each other
--we don't have all the answers.....but we are never alone--God is always with us and will pick us up and take us to others that will be there to love and support us.....remember that everyone is broken insome way....most of us just don't admit it....no one likes for others to think there is something wrong--whether it be something small or a major struggle we are going through.....
that's why when people ask 'so, how are you?', most of us just smile and say, 'i'm fine'.....
***God uses people when they are broken--not when people are full of themselves.
---we don't always get to choose what we go through, but we DO get to choose how we respond----choose life instead of emotional death....choose gratitude: list out things you are grateful for--God will do amazing things in your heart...the speaker talked a bit about philippians 4:6-7, 'Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.'
another mentioned 'the joy of the lord is our strength'
they talked about how hiding emotions is toxic---ok, cheesy saying-"what you don't say,
stays"....there is a release that comes when you take inside emotions and get them on the outside....you must express feelings or it will be toxic to your wellbeing..don't let held in emotions turn you to stone....
"to fully experience God, you must fully experience life.....to experience life, you must experience pain" --- to heal it, you have to feel it...so many times, to avoid "feeling", people get busy doing things to stay distracted from what is really going on....it's bad to deny,
bury, or stay distracted from feelings...
---you can't go over, under, or around the pain--you must go through
it. referenced psalm 23
God walks us through---he lifts us, he holds us......
God is always there whether we feel it, or not...he is in charge--we don't know what his plan is......but each thing we go through will teach us something and prepare us for the next thing....
think positive....count your blessings.....be grateful.....
amazing freedom is ours!!
: D